Awareness

Unpopular Opinions

Unpopular Opinions
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  • As children, we are all born clueless, and our opinions are formed mainly through observing the behavior of those around us. One who grew up in an isolated village might have a different mindset than someone born in New York City.

  • Almost everything is subject to opinion today. Every day, we observe the world around us and put our own viewpoint above everything else.  However, most of the time, our opinions are not always accurate.

  • The way we think is influenced by our expectations, judgments, beliefs, and sometimes by our ignorance. However, how often have we judged others and later realized that our judgment was flawed?

  • Therefore, it is wise to limit the number of unchangeable opinions you hold  and to avoid making a problem out of nothing. There are times when it is better not to have strong opinions and instead to try to understand the opinions that are unpopular.

  • Like you, other people have opinions as well. Accept that it is just a thought in their mind among thousands of others  and that how you view it is entirely up to you.

  • Even though we may have an opinion, it does not change the value of what or who is being judged. So do not categorize  everything as good, terrible, unfair, or outrageous based on your opinion. Let things be just things.

But that’s just my take. Comment and share yours.


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Written by Garv Chawla · Stoic of the Day
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